And why is it...

That when a girl wants to find a man to date, love, get physical with, or whatever, there is no one to be found. And when that girl does find that guy, she then finds out he's a total freak? I JUST DON'T GET IT!!! Then the girl erases his phone number from her phone and his contact info on IM, and then he contacts her and acts like everything is normal after they haven't communicated for over a WEEK!!! WHAT THE HELL??? Am I missing something here? Was I born without the gene that wards off weirdos/men with obnoxious children/freaks of nature? Seriously, is there something so wrong with my intuition that I can't figure these people out from the beginning? Whatever...